The Biggest #1 Secret To Attracting Women - What Wealthy Men Know That You Don't
You just really need to understand one point if you understand absolutely nothing regarding women or exactly how to pick up and seduce women. You just have to understand THE one biggest secret to attracting women that all successful guys typically have and losers do not.
- James Bond has it
- Movie and sports stars have it
- Rich guys have it
- Guy that understand exactly how to attract women have it
- YOU could even have it
What is this magic secret that can transform you from zero to hero like a Hogwarts spell? Liquor? Meditation ? Pheromones extracted from the Tasmanian devil? It is something called CONFIDENCE.
CONFIDENCE? WHAT CONFIDENCE?
If you scrutinize successful or wealthy guys, they have a specific ambiance, a specific authority, a specific swagger, a certain confidence. They exhibit confidence in their body movement, their voice articulations, and the way they communicate with women. Successful guys have an intrinsic high sense of value and are not afraid of women or being rejected simply because of the experiences and successes that got them their high level of natural confidence.
THE IDEA OF PERCEIVED VALUE
Aside from puppy love and teen crushes, what attracts a woman to a guy is not his appearances, riches, success, charm, or his incredible conversational abilities. Intuitively, what attracts a woman to a guy is his value. While for guys, a woman's value at first is simply how hot she looks, for a woman, it's much more complicated on an instinctive level. A woman, particularly a desirable woman, has a precise sense of her innate value. She understands precisely what she is worth and what level of a guy she has the ability to attract. Typically, the higher the woman thinks about herself, the greater the level of guys she is going to attempt to attract.
This principle of the way the woman thinks about herself is her perceived value. What she thinks about a guy is her perceived value of that guy. A woman will be attracted to a guy ONLY if her perceived value of him is above her own value. There is a well-known myth saying that a woman, when meeting a guy, immediately judges whether she will sleep with him or not. While this is only partially correct IMO, the woman IS GOING TO determine unconsciously if your value is greater that hers or not, thereby being attracted to you.
WHAT DOES THAT IMPLY IN THE SCHEME OF THINGS?
The idea of perceived value implies that you have to show the woman that your value is above hers. This is called "demonstrating your value" in pickup artist parlance. Before you have an opportunity to demonstrate your value, you initially have to approach the woman and get in the door and actually have her interested in what you have to say. The moment you go up to a woman, the only basis of judgement of your value will be your level of confidence.
The greater your confidence, the greater your perceived value will be. With greater perceived value, you could attract the hotter women. Now the only issue is if you're not wealthy, successful, powerful, or Bond, just how precisely do you ooze confidence that women find so tempting?